Just some thoughts bouncing around in my brain lately….
Reading is relaxing and enlightening
When I first started working, I was so excited at the thought of making money that I wanted to buy myself things. I would rationalize and rationalize the purchases away until I realized they weren’t really essential or justified. Sure, it’s fine to buy yourself something. But for me I was bored and trying to fill a void so I would walk into a store, browse to waste time and usually buy something cheap that I didn’t really need. It wasn’t until I started reading my bible more consistently and other books that I felt this need to constantly be entertained slowly dissipate. Don’t get me wrong – I enjoy shopping but there’s a difference between shopping because you’re lonely and shopping with intention. Reading the bible and books in general has been a great way to use that time for something enlightening and strengthening. And if you think you’re a “bad reader,” you’re not. You’re probably just distracted (like I was and am at times).
Latest reads that I would recommend: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality, Garden City, Simply Jesus, Everybody Always and Loveology. Currently reading: Undaunted & Life Without Ed. Next up: How’s Your Soul? (literally has been on my shelf for a year) & Hearing God.
Therapy is helpful
I went to a therapy session last Friday – the first time I’ve ever truly sat down and talked with someone about my life. It was very healing. I think it’s important to talk about these things because 1] it’s easy to assume that someone’s life on social media is always what it looks like, 2] life is hard for everyone and 3] going to therapy is not something to be ashamed about.
Exploring my city is worth the effort every once in a while
Even though I live in northern Virginia and work in DC, I don’t venture into the city as much as I would like. Well, actually I don’t really wish I did more often because I like having slow weekends at my apartment but it is nice to get out and see fun things every once in a while. My cousin came to visit a few weekends ago and we spent half of the day in Georgetown – no real agenda, just walking around, browsing the shops and trying Bluestone Lane coffee (highly recommend!)
Quiet time renews my brain
This goes back to the reading point, but starting my day with some quiet time has been so great. I’m actually not very good at doing it consistently, but I’ve gotten it down to at least a few mornings each week, especially the weekend. I have no problem waking up early when there’s a scheduled event but if I have no plans it’s pretty hard for me. To counteract this, I made three alarms (which I found kind of funny and also helpful). During this time, I basically just try to spend time with God through prayer or reading His word. Sometimes I just sit and drink coffee and let my brain wake up for a few minutes before diving into my day.
What habits or activities or things have you been enjoying lately? I’d love to know!